Thanks to a friend, I came upon Pastor Mark Driscoll's (of Mars Hill Church in Seattle) sermon series. The first one exams the woman's role in marriage based on Paul's I Peter 3 letter. The second video is part two and is a powerful and intense message to men and their role as husbands. I recommend you sit down and watch this--whether you're married or engaged or dating or single. A couple warnings: both are over an hour long, but well worth your time. both extremely convicting, but the call to a Christ-like marriage cannot be ignored.